Coming back to the writing after a long hiatus..And I missed it not :) I believe in, 'where ever you are, be there.' This trait comes naturally to me and  at times I wish to get rid of it :)

 The same case is with the Pain.Pain is an emotion..painful obviously..but deep inside there is a joy with it too. Pain is subjective. Howsoever we sympathize about others' pain we won't be able to ease it off. To put yourself in others' shoes is a hard job.Your loved ones can try to soothe you like medicines,but can't relieve you off it. Life is a great teacher so is Pain. It teaches you the value of this precious Life. Living in  the fear of losing your Life.And when you conquer Pain. What a joy!